Exercise #3
‘”Anita bobbita” I usually say in a humorous tone. Anita, is the name of the person who which I joke around with as so when calling out her name. Ever since meeting up in the start of high school we have clicked and I never realized all the stuff we had in common. Both of us looking for the same things and goals in life and wanting to do something in the medical field, we are always competing against each other or sharing laughs experiences. She wanting to be a surgeon adn me an anesthesiologist. Just so that we keep in touch with each other, our weekly chats (in more simplified terms) go like this:
Me: “Anita!” Anita: ”Phill!” Me: “Bueno! (meaning hello its an inside joke). Anita: laughing “haha Bueno dear.” Our conversations usually start like so and start chatting about the events that happen in our lives. She is truly a person of many sides because for the most part she has these stunning light brown eyes that really stick out and whenever I talk to her I just can’t help but look into them and she also has a great smile and whenever I talk to her, her smile makes me smile which is really funny. I tell her about it too which makes her laugh. On the other side, when there is stuff to be done or things that need to be handled, Anita can be assertive and more often than not a bitch but not in a bad way, just someone who doesn’t take no for an answer and that will be very persistent until something gets done. I like both these sides and it makes our relationship very interesting because usually she jokes around saying that “Phillip likes it when I get bitchy, he likes bitchy girls”. We usually joke about this alot.
When not talking outside of school, we usually go to the movies or hang out at the park with other people for fun. Whenever I drive her places I always have to prepare for the one song which she always has to put on during our car rides to places. “Diamond Girl”. Its like whenever I hear that song now, I picture Anita singing it which she quite frankly does a not so good job at getting the pitches right or anything. When singing she songs more like an American Idol reject. Too bad I don’t have three hands because one hand would be on the wheel and the other two would be covering my ears from the sound she makes. Sounding nothing like the original song.
Now my family absolutely adores Anita. They are always telling me that why don’t I go out with Anita but I tell them that she’s just a really close friends and if stuff didn’t work out then our friendship might be ruined which would not work well.
Two summers ago, Anita and I worked at a hospital as LPN’s and that truly a great experience. We both got to see another side of the medical field and there were some crazy stories that would take me forever to type out. While working at the hospital, she came up with this grea tidea to create confessionals akin to Real World and pretty much every reality tv show on the block. She told me to bring my camera and whenever one of us were free (or our other friends who were with us) or if something happened that we needed to just let out, that we could do it on camera. There was a supply room in the hospital floor which we worked in towards the back where we went to record these confessionals.
One of the Many Nursing Confessional vids recorded. (I don\’t know if the video is viewable or not)
We both truly made the best out of our summer working at the hospital and we many fun times. Now we are moving to bigger and better things. We are both first year college students both striving to get into the medical field and we both share common interests. Both of us know each other so well that we know what gets us angry and happy and what makes us laugh etc. I feel ultimately feel like I can talk to her about anything and if I need an answer “straight up” she’ll give it to me.
